When Weak Men Raise Sons, Their Sons Become Like Women: The Consequences of Woke Indoctrination on Masculinity

 

By Bobby Darvish, Iranian-American Ex-Muslim, Former Vegan, Former Democrat, Former Socialist, Former CAIR-Columbus Executive Director, Former Muslim Forum of Utah President, Christian Conservative LDS Priest 

The Crisis of Weak Men and the Feminization of Sons

A civilization is only as strong as the men who build, protect, and sustain it. Yet, in modern America, we are witnessing an alarming phenomenon: weak men are raising sons who are emasculated, fragile, and molded by the social constructs of woke women. This crisis has far-reaching consequences, from the decline of strong nuclear families to the erosion of traditional masculinity.

A man’s role has historically been clear—provider, protector, leader. But weak men, lacking the backbone to stand against cultural pressures, fail to instill these virtues in their sons. Instead, their sons grow up absorbing the values of woke feminism, prioritizing feelings over facts, submission over strength, and compliance over courage. As a result, masculinity is demonized, marriage rates plummet, birthrates decline, and entire civilizations face demographic collapse.

The Woke War on Masculinity

In Western society, the leftist establishment pushes the narrative that traditional masculinity is “toxic.” Boys are discouraged from taking risks, standing up for themselves, or asserting their strength. They are told that being aggressive, competitive, or ambitious is inherently oppressive. Public schools and universities enforce ideological conformity, shaming young men into becoming passive, apologetic, and deferential to feminist ideals.

This trend is evident in modern media. Hollywood portrays men as either incompetent buffoons or villainous oppressors, while woke corporate policies force men to tiptoe around feminist rhetoric or risk losing their careers. These social constructs—built by feminist and Marxist ideologues—do not produce strong, independent men; they create effeminate, dependent, and spiritually neutered individuals who lack the ability to lead, provide, or protect.

The Hypocrisy of the West: Demonizing Male Legacy

One of the greatest hypocrisies of the modern West is its condemnation of men who seek to establish a legacy through marriage and fatherhood. Outside of the United States, it is perfectly natural for a man—regardless of age—to marry an adult woman, typically between 18 and 40+, before menopause. This is the biological and historical standard for ensuring the continuation of the family line.

Yet, in America, men who marry younger women are shamed and ridiculed, accused of being “predatory” or “controlling.” Meanwhile, older women are encouraged to pursue careers, delay childbirth, and freeze their eggs in a desperate attempt to defy biology. The woke feminist machine promotes female “empowerment” while discouraging male leadership and legacy-building. This cultural inversion is a recipe for demographic and civilizational decline.

The Results: Declining Birthrates and Social Decay

The West’s rejection of traditional masculinity has led to disastrous results:

1. Declining Birthrates – Countries that embrace woke feminism, such as the United States, Canada, and much of Europe, have birthrates far below replacement levels (2.1 children per woman) (Eberstadt, 2021). Meanwhile, more patriarchal societies, such as those in Eastern Europe, Africa, and parts of the Middle East, continue to grow.

2. The “Manosphere” Rebellion – Young men, disillusioned with the modern dating market, are turning to alternative ideologies, such as the manosphere and traditionalist movements. Many are seeking wives abroad in countries that still respect masculinity (Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male).

3. Economic and Social Instability – With fewer men leading families and taking responsibility, society becomes increasingly dependent on government intervention. The welfare state grows, fatherlessness rises, and crime increases (Murray, 2012).

Restoring Manhood and Legacy

To reverse this decline, men must reject the weak, feminized model of modern masculinity and reclaim their traditional roles. Fathers must raise their sons to be strong, disciplined, and unapologetic in their masculinity. Marriage and fatherhood should be promoted as noble pursuits, not scorned as outdated traditions.

Moreover, men should be free to marry younger women without societal condemnation. A strong, capable man marrying an 18-to-40-year-old woman to build a legacy is not predatory—it is the foundation of civilization itself.

Conclusion

Weak men raise weak sons, and weak sons become tools of the woke feminist machine. If the West continues down this path, its demise is inevitable. But by restoring traditional masculinity, embracing natural male-female dynamics, and encouraging men to leave a legacy, we can rebuild strong families, communities, and nations. It is time for men to rise again.

Citations:

• Eberstadt, N. (2021). The Global Decline of Fertility: A Demographic Crisis. Washington, D.C.: AEI Press.
• Murray, C. (2012). Coming Apart: The State of White America, 1960-2010. New York: Crown Forum.
• Tomassi, R. (2013). The Rational Male. CreateSpace Independent Publishing.