Refuting the Misconceptions of Exhaustion and Injustice

Refuting the Misconceptions of Exhaustion and Injustice 

By Bobby Darvish
darvishintelligence.blogspot.com

As an Iranian-American who has faced the harshness of oppression firsthand, having experienced everything from being persecuted under an Islamic regime to living through civil unrest, I can empathize with a feeling of fatigue and helplessness. Yet, in the midst of personal struggles and societal challenges, there is a deep-rooted truth I have come to understand: The narrative that claims systemic injustice is an insurmountable burden for certain groups, and that this fatigue is justified without deeper introspection or self-awareness, requires serious scrutiny.

In the statement above, I hear a list of grievances that reflect a mix of misunderstanding, political manipulation, and misplaced perceptions of victimhood. These sentiments, often amplified by mainstream media and modern activist circles, are frequently used to divide people and obscure the truth. Allow me to explain why these complaints miss the mark, particularly through the lens of someone who has been through a real struggle for rights, freedom, and justice.

1. "I'm tired of fighting for rights that I deserve."

First, I must point out that I, too, am tired. Tired of seeing people who have lived a life of relative comfort—far removed from the horrors of actual tyranny—claim they are fighting for rights they already have. In my experience, the fight for rights is not as simple as it may seem to those who haven’t lived under the boot of oppression. Rights are not granted through mere grievance, but through action, sacrifice, and determination. In my case, fighting for my religious freedom and the right to practice my beliefs without fear of persecution was not just a political issue, but a matter of survival. As a Christian who grew up under the Islamic regime, I saw firsthand the painful reality of religious discrimination. If you're in a place where you can express your views freely, you are already blessed.

2. "I'm tired of explaining that tariffs cost us more on products brought into the country."

Economic policy, including tariffs, is a complex issue that cannot be solved by oversimplification. Tariffs are tools that governments use to protect domestic industries and secure economic sovereignty. While tariffs may lead to higher prices in some cases, they are often employed strategically to ensure national security and fair trade practices. I have seen how countries like Iran manipulate global markets for their advantage. Rather than focusing on mere inconvenience, we must understand the bigger picture of preserving national interests and reducing reliance on foreign powers that may not share our values.

3. "I'm tired of the lack of separation of church and state."

As an LDS Christian, I firmly believe in the separation of church and state. This principle ensures that our government is free from religious influence, but it also protects our religious freedoms from government overreach. However, the secularization of society should not erase the role of faith in the lives of individuals. The modern progressive agenda often disregards the foundational principles of Western civilization, including the Christian roots that helped build this nation. In truth, the attack on religious values goes beyond the separation of church and state; it is an attempt to remove moral absolutes and replace them with subjective ideologies that contradict our historical beliefs.

4. "I'm tired of being an item, where life-altering decisions are made for me by men who have no clue about the female anatomy."

This statement reflects a deep misunderstanding of both women's rights and the role of men and women in society. The idea that men are unqualified to make decisions for women based on their lack of understanding of female anatomy undermines the principle of mutual respect and shared responsibility in a family and society. As a Christian, I believe that the roles of men and women are complementary, not adversarial. True empowerment comes when both genders work together within a framework of love, respect, and mutual support, grounded in moral and ethical principles.

5. "I'm tired of racism, sexism, misogyny, and bigotry being okay."

Racism, sexism, and bigotry are absolutely unacceptable, and I am among those who have fought against these evils my entire life. But what we are seeing today is the weaponization of these terms to divide us rather than unite us. Too often, accusations of racism or sexism are wielded indiscriminately to silence those with differing opinions. As an Iranian-American, I know what it is like to be seen as an "other" in a country that is still grappling with its history of race relations. Yet, I also know that the solution is not to focus on victimhood but to push for unity, understanding, and dialogue based on shared values.

6. "I'm tired of children having to fear going to school."

It is horrifying that children have to live in fear, but this fear is often fueled by radical ideologies, the breakdown of the family unit, and a society that no longer upholds traditional values of safety and discipline. The rise of violent crime and mass shootings in schools is a symptom of a larger societal breakdown. It is not the result of policies that encourage freedom, but rather the consequence of neglecting personal responsibility, failing to uphold basic moral values, and abandoning traditional family structures. As a Christian, I believe that a return to prayer in schools and a focus on moral education could significantly reduce this fear.

7. "I'm tired of fearing going anywhere in public alone."

Fear in public spaces is often fueled by the erosion of law and order, the disintegration of community, and the growing prevalence of violence. However, this fear is also exacerbated by the media's portrayal of society as chaotic and unsafe. The reality is that most Americans live in relatively safe environments. The problem lies in how we view ourselves and our country. America is still the land of opportunity and freedom, and though there are challenges, we must rise above fear and act as a unified, law-abiding nation to combat the real threats of violence and societal decay.

8. "I'm tired of people not getting it. I'm tired. I'm scared."

While I understand the feeling of exhaustion and fear, we must recognize that we cannot rely on government or others to solve our personal crises. We are a nation built on the principle of self-reliance and personal responsibility. As an ex-Muslim and an immigrant who came to this country seeking freedom, I can tell you that if you are still able to express your opinions without fear of being imprisoned or executed, you live in a country of immense opportunity. It is our duty as citizens to work toward restoring our nation to its foundational values—values rooted in faith, family, and individual freedom.

Conclusion:

As an Iranian-American ex-Muslim Christian and an advocate for traditional values, I urge you to reflect on the incredible blessings and freedoms you already possess. Instead of focusing on a narrative of victimhood, let us embrace our collective responsibility to make this nation better, to fight for the truth, and to reject the divisive tactics that are undermining our way of life. It is time to move beyond fatigue and fear and step into the fullness of the opportunities we have, remembering that true strength comes from the unshakable foundation of faith and courage.

Citations:

1. Gorski, P. (2020). Secularism, Religion, and Democracy: A Comparative Analysis. Oxford University Press.
2. Sowell, T. (2018). Discrimination and Disparities. Basic Books.
3. Haidt, J. (2018). The Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure. Penguin Press.
4. D’Souza, D. (2019). The United States of Socialism: Who's Behind It and Why We Need to Stop It. All Points Books.