A Conservative Iranian-American’s Perspective on Marriage, Protection, and Traditional Roles
By Bobby Darvish
DarvishIntelligence.Blogspot.com
As an Iranian-American who has seen the extremes of radical ideologies and now stands firmly in the values that define a strong and free America, I believe marriage should be built on traditional Christian principles, where both partners uphold their duties to each other, their families, and their faith. As a man who identifies as a conservative Christian and a proud supporter of Donald Trump, I see marriage not just as a legal contract but as a covenant between two people who are ready to protect and support one another through thick and thin.
What I Want in a Partner
First and foremost, I want to be with a woman who shares my values — someone who is deeply committed to her faith and lives it out in every aspect of her life. A good Christian woman is someone who prioritizes family, faith, and integrity, and who understands that being a wife and mother is a noble calling, whether she works outside the home or not. In the conservative Republican values I hold dear, I believe that a woman’s role in the home is essential — and domestic work, such as taking care of the home and nurturing the family, is a high calling in itself. While I respect women who work outside the home, I also believe that homemaking is an invaluable contribution, and I would appreciate a woman who finds joy in making a home.
That being said, whether she chooses to work or stay at home is entirely up to her. My goal is to be a protector and a provider, creating a stable and loving environment for us to grow together in faith, prosperity, and love. This is why I would expect a prenuptial agreement, as I firmly believe that both parties should enter into marriage with mutual respect, clear expectations, and an understanding of each other’s responsibilities and rights. A prenup is not a sign of distrust, but a way to safeguard the well-being of both parties, ensuring a fair and just arrangement should circumstances change in the future.
A Strong and Loving Marriage
I also want a marriage that is passionate, exciting, and real. Part of that involves intimacy and enjoying one another’s company in all ways. I’m not just seeking a partnership in the conventional sense; I want a woman who understands and shares my desire to keep our connection vibrant in the bedroom. A healthy marriage should be one that embraces all aspects of physical and emotional intimacy, where both partners are free to express their desires and enjoy each other to the fullest. I take my commitment seriously and am ready to give everything for the woman I choose to marry, but I also believe that both partners must contribute to the relationship in all areas — from providing for each other’s needs, to fostering deep affection, and maintaining a dynamic connection that strengthens the marriage.
Why It Matters
In a world where traditional values are under constant attack by progressives and left-wing ideologies, I stand firm in my belief that marriage should reflect the timeless principles that have made America great. This means upholding the sanctity of marriage, embracing gender roles that respect both masculinity and femininity, and ensuring that both partners contribute to the well-being of the relationship in meaningful ways. Just as we support our country’s conservative values, we should be able to nurture the values that will make our marriages stronger, our families healthier, and our future brighter.
Ultimately, a successful marriage is built on mutual respect, clear communication, shared values, and the willingness to protect and care for each other. I know what I want in a partner and what I am willing to give in return. Marriage is not just about love, but about a covenant that both partners enter into with the understanding that they are responsible for each other’s well-being, both emotionally and materially.
Conclusion
As I reflect on the qualities that are important to me in a potential spouse, I am reminded that marriage is a partnership in every sense. A woman who aligns with conservative Christian values, whether she works or not, who finds joy in domestic duties, and who can share in both the serious and fun parts of life is exactly the kind of woman I am looking for. And in return, I will protect her, provide for her, and ensure that our marriage is a fulfilling, passionate, and fruitful union.
Citations:
- St. Paul’s teachings on marriage in Ephesians 5:22-33, New International Version Bible.
- Donald Trump’s conservative policies on family and faith, cited in The Conservative Review (2016).
- “The Biblical Role of Women in Marriage” from Focus on the Family, accessed on www.focusonthefamily.com.
- “Marriage and Gender Roles: A Conservative Perspective,” The Heritage Foundation, published in 2018.
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