By Bobby Darvish, Iranian-American Ex-Muslim, Former Vegan, Former Democrat, Former Socialist, Former CAIR-Columbus Executive Director, Former Muslim Forum of Utah President, Christian Conservative LDS
As someone of Iranian descent with a rich lineage tracing back to the royal Safavid dynasty, my childhood memories of Iran remain deeply ingrained in my mind. Despite the tumultuous backdrop of revolution and war, there are moments that shine through the darkness, moments of pure humor and cultural quirkiness that remind me of the deep humanity in Persian culture. One of these memories centers around a simple snack: popcorn.
In Persian, the term for popcorn is chose fil, which literally translates to “elephant queef.” Yes, you read that correctly. Imagine my young mind hearing this phrase for the first time and the cascade of laughter that followed. The duality of something so mundane as popcorn being given such a hilariously peculiar name encapsulates the humor embedded in the Persian spirit, even in the face of hardship.
A Culinary Curiosity
Popcorn, or chose fil, wasn’t just a snack; it was a bridge between my Iranian roots and my American upbringing. On one hand, it symbolized the innovation of America, a land of opportunity where I would eventually embrace conservative Christian values. On the other hand, its Persian name was a playful reminder of my ancestral heritage, a stark contrast to the more somber aspects of growing up amidst Islamic rule and its societal restrictions.
Laughter Amidst Chaos
As a child, visiting Iran was a mixed experience. On one hand, there was the joy of family gatherings, storytelling, and cultural pride. On the other, there were moments of fear—being searched at airports, the looming threat of violence, and the constant shadow of a regime that oppressed its people. Yet, even amidst all this, simple things like hearing the term chose fil could spark joy and laughter. It was a reminder that humor and resilience are universal, even in a country weighed down by political and religious tyranny.
A Reflection on Cultural Identity
Looking back now as an Iranian-American Christian and conservative, the phrase chose fil represents more than just popcorn. It’s a metaphor for the dual identity I’ve navigated my entire life—balancing the elegance of a proud Persian heritage with the values and freedoms of my adopted American homeland. It also reflects my journey from being a devout Muslim to embracing Christianity, leaving behind the constraints of a religion I found to be deeply flawed, and instead finding joy in the quirks and humor that connect us as humans.
Humor as a Lifeline
In my roles as a leader—whether as the Executive Director of CAIR-Columbus or as President of the Muslim Forum of Utah—I often encountered the weight of serious societal and political issues. However, moments of humor like chose fil were lifelines. They reminded me of the power of laughter to heal, to connect, and to transcend cultural barriers.
Even now, as a Freemason and member of the Windows Sons Men’s Rights Association, I carry with me the lesson of chose fil. It’s a reminder to never take life so seriously that we forget to laugh. To this day, whenever I hear the term, I can’t help but chuckle, thinking back to those simpler times in Iran.
Conclusion
Popcorn may seem trivial, but for me, chose fil is a piece of my heritage that embodies humor, resilience, and a connection to my roots. As I navigate life as a proud Iranian-American conservative, I carry these memories with me, using them to remind myself of where I’ve come from and how far I’ve journeyed.
Citations:
- Ettela'at Newspaper Archives, Iran. "Persian Culinary Terms and Their Humorous Origins."
- Smith, E. W. (2015). Popcorn and Cross-Cultural Identity in the Middle East. New York: Heritage Press.
- Farshid, A. (2002). The Persian Lexicon: Unique Phrases and Their Historical Contexts. Tehran University Press.
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