Darvish Intelligence

 The Truth About My Dating Preferences: Why I Only Date Conservative Women

By Bobby Darvish
Darvish Intelligence

I recently had an interesting experience on a dating app that made me reflect on the way we all form preferences and the ever-evolving nature of personal choices in relationships. A woman, who would probably rate around a 5/10 on my personal scale of attractiveness, made it clear that she doesn't date Trump voters. While I respect her right to have her own preferences, I took the opportunity to explain my own standards.

In a world where people are quick to judge each other based on political affiliation, social media posts, or other superficial markers, it’s become common for individuals to take extreme stances. But in reality, these are just one part of the equation, especially when it comes to forming meaningful relationships. I made it clear to this woman that my dating criteria are more nuanced, and perhaps, more specific than she might expect.

I don’t typically date women who don't align with my values, and as a conservative, I prefer to be with someone who shares the same worldview. But it’s not just about politics—it’s about shared principles and a lifestyle that complements my own. I don't have the time or energy to waste on someone who fundamentally disagrees with me on the most basic issues that shape our worldviews, including family values, respect for individual liberty, and the preservation of traditional American ideals. For this reason, I prefer to date conservative women—those who understand the importance of preserving our freedoms and upholding our shared moral compass.

That being said, I also have certain physical preferences when it comes to who I date. I tend to gravitate toward women who are naturally beautiful—preferably those who are in the 7/10 to 10/10 range, physically speaking. I admire women with large breasts, a flat stomach, and well-toned legs. Additionally, I find blonde or red hair paired with blue or green eyes particularly attractive. It’s simply my preference, and I don’t believe there's anything wrong with having standards.

Furthermore, I do not generally date women with children unless certain conditions are met. I respect single mothers, but they would need to be extraordinary for me to even consider a relationship with them. It’s not a matter of being judgmental but of knowing what I’m looking for in a partner. Ideally, if a woman has children, I expect that the father should be out of the picture—either through a divorce or being widowed. This is my personal choice because I believe in building a future with someone without the complexities of prior relationships interfering.

Ultimately, my dating preferences aren’t about exclusion but about finding a true connection with someone who shares not just physical attraction, but deeper values that align with my own worldview. Just as that woman has the right to reject Trump voters, I have the right to be selective about who I date based on my personal values, political beliefs, and, yes, my preferences when it comes to physical attraction.

The way I see it, relationships—whether romantic or otherwise—are built on mutual respect, understanding, and shared goals. If you're not aligned on the important matters, then you’re simply wasting each other's time. If you don’t respect the things that are most important to me, then we’re unlikely to ever form a meaningful connection.

In the end, I’m not interested in appeasing the woke crowd or conforming to society's push for political correctness. I value integrity, self-respect, and having a strong, shared foundation. So, for me, the equation is simple: I only date conservative, beautiful, and independent women who meet my standards in both values and appearance.

Citations:

1. "The Case for Conservative Values in Romantic Relationships." National Review. https://www.nationalreview.com/
2. "The Importance of Shared Values in Marriage." The Family Foundation. https://www.familyfoundation.org/
3. "Why Physical Attraction Still Matters in Modern Relationships." Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/