Why I Only Date Conservative, Trump-Supporting Christian Women
By Bobby Darvish, Iranian-American Ex-Muslim, Former Vegan, Former Democrat, Former Socialist, Former CAIR-Columbus Executive Director, Former Muslim Forum of Utah President, Christian Conservative LDS
As an Iranian-American, ex-Muslim, Christian conservative, and dedicated patriot, my journey has been marked by profound transformations—spiritual, political, and personal. I’ve evolved from being a Democrat and socialist to embracing the values of conservatism, Christianity, and the foundational principles that make America great. Today, I’m unapologetic about the kind of woman I want to build a life with: a conservative, Trump-supporting, Christian woman who values family, freedom, and faith as much as I do.
There’s a reason why I swipe left on liberal women on dating apps. It’s not because I hold any personal animosity toward them; rather, it’s about shared values, alignment in beliefs, and the goals I’ve invested in over years of personal and professional effort. A partner in life should complement one’s values, not undermine them. I have no interest in dating someone who holds views that contradict everything I’ve worked for and believe in. To share my success and life with a liberal woman would be akin to sharing it with an ideological opponent—one who often sees America’s greatness as problematic rather than praiseworthy.
Why Values Matter in Relationships
Conservatives often talk about the importance of “family values” and “faith-based relationships.” These terms aren’t just buzzwords; they represent the cornerstone of strong relationships built on mutual respect and a shared worldview. My faith in Christ and my dedication to conservative principles are not just components of my identity—they define how I approach every aspect of life. From how I view the world to how I envision my future, my beliefs have set a clear path forward. I need a partner who doesn’t just tolerate my values but champions them alongside me.
Christian conservative women understand the challenges of upholding these values in an increasingly secular, left-leaning society. They know that building a family grounded in faith and patriotic principles isn’t easy in a culture that too often dismisses or even derides such commitments. Liberals, particularly those deeply entrenched in progressive ideologies, often fail to see the merit in traditional values, patriotism, and personal accountability—values I hold dear.
Shared Goals Lead to Lasting Relationships
As someone who has built a career in cybersecurity, worked within both the Muslim and Christian communities, and risen through my own hard work and dedication, I have a lot invested in my success. I’ve poured countless hours, finances, and hard-earned skills into achieving my current position in life. Why would I choose a partner who sees my ideals as flawed or outdated? If my partner and I don’t share a vision for our family, country, and future, we’re bound to face friction that would undermine our relationship in the long run.
Research shows that political compatibility is one of the leading indicators of relationship success. According to a 2020 study published by the Journal of Politics, couples with similar political views report higher levels of relationship satisfaction and are more likely to stay together long-term (Klofstad et al., 2020). When partners have vastly different political ideologies, it can create constant tension and erode trust and understanding within the relationship. Given my history, I know firsthand how challenging it is to reconcile fundamentally opposing beliefs—and I’m not willing to compromise on that front.
The Necessity of Dating Conservative Women in Today’s Political Climate
Dating conservative women isn’t just a matter of convenience or preference—it’s a matter of survival in today’s polarized society. In a time when being a conservative Christian often means facing hostility, it’s crucial to find a partner who stands beside you, ready to defend those values. Conservative women understand the struggle of preserving American principles in a world that sometimes feels stacked against them. They understand that freedom, family, and faith aren’t negotiable, and they’re willing to work alongside their partners to protect those ideals.
Many liberal women I encounter on dating apps seem more aligned with ideologies that I consider harmful to America’s core values. Whether it’s embracing socialism, viewing America as a fundamentally flawed nation, or supporting policies that undermine personal freedoms, these perspectives are incompatible with the life I’ve built and the legacy I intend to leave. I have no interest in building a life or a family with someone who views me, as a conservative, as the enemy or as misguided.
Why Faith, Patriotism, and Conservative Principles Are Essential in a Partner
For me, dating someone who aligns with my values is about honoring my journey and the sacrifices I’ve made. I have no interest in compromising my deeply held beliefs to accommodate a partner who doesn’t share my vision for life. I believe in the sanctity of family, the value of hard work, and the responsibility we have to defend our freedoms. I believe in God, in the principles of the Constitution, and in the greatness of America—ideals I want to instill in my children.
Building a family on a strong, faith-centered foundation is essential, especially given my past experiences within the Muslim community and my journey toward Christianity. I know the importance of a life built on solid principles and unwavering beliefs. For these reasons, I need a partner who stands firm in her convictions—a woman who knows that we’re fighting for a nation worth preserving, and who is committed to standing by her husband’s side in that battle.
Conclusion
I only date conservative, Trump-supporting, Christian women because I seek a partner, not an opponent. I’ve spent my life working to uphold the values that make America great and embracing a faith that guides my every step. Liberal ideologies are incompatible with that vision. To share my life, success, and future with a woman who opposes those values would be to risk everything I hold dear. My partner must stand beside me, committed to building a future rooted in faith, freedom, and family.
By prioritizing conservative women, I’m choosing to honor my values, secure my future, and build a legacy that reflects the ideals I cherish.
Works Cited
Klofstad, Casey A., et al. "Political Homogamy and Relationship Satisfaction: Examining the Role of Similarity in Partner Political Attitudes." Journal of Politics, vol. 82, no. 4, 2020, pp. 1426-1439.
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